When I Came Out...

It was about 3 years ago when I came out to my family. I had a girlfriend at the time but no body new but one day my grandmother was looking through my facebook and it went alittle like this. 

Grandma; Who’s this on your relationship status?

me; .. that’s my girlfriend.. 

Grandma; You never told me you were gay kayla.

me; you never asked so i didn’t think it was important.

Grandma; Well in that case your no longer aloud to sleep in your cousins room you can sleep out side for all I care

So after a few weeks I slept in the living room on the love seat. Then after maybe like 2 weeks my cousin comes out that she’s bisexual and my grandma turns to me and says “you did this to her didn’t you? She wasn’t like this until you moved in.” I just stared at her blankly. After that she’s never looked at me the same. She gives me dirty looks when I need help with something she just turns away. At first it really bothered me that my own grandmother would do that. But as I grew I realized it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks anymore. I am who I am and you can’t change me.