December 2010
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Coming out to my new class at a christmas dinner...
We played a drinking game called ‘I have never..’ where you say I have never _____ (something) and if you have done the thing said, you have to drink.
Nanna: OK, ehr.. I have never.. Had sex with a girl!
The other girls: hahaha!
Me: *drinking in silence*
The other girls: *all staring at me with suprise*
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I’m not really sure how I fully came out. My mom got her current boyfriend two years ago, and he used to be a full-fledged punker. He wears shirts of lesbian punk bands all the time, and we always make lesbian jokes. He and mom call me a future lesbian all the time. We were all watching The Runaways and when we got to the scene where KStew and Dakota Fanning make out, we were all talking...
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Coming out to my friends.
So I have a group of friends that i always hang out with. But only one of them knew that I was bi and that I’d just started dated. I wasn’t sure how to handle the situation so my friend (maddie) stepped in.
Maddie “So guess what?” Guy Friend “What”
Maddie “Razz started dating someone. Theyre the opposite of Cal” (Cal was my badboy exbf)
Guy friend...
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Leaving the closet
How I came out to one of my aunts is when I was one day in the closet looking for something to wear. My younger cousin thought it be funny to shut the closet door on me. So when I proceeded to open the closet door, he started giggling saying “Lauren just came out of the closet. hehehe” (Not knowing what that even means). I mumbled to myself along the lines that Im not fully out yet and...
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Coming Out To My Sister
My sister and I have always been really close, but growing up she was always very religious and homophobic. Even though she was the very first person I wanted to tell, it took me nearly a year to get up the courage to do so. When I finally did it took me nearly an hour of rambling to finally get to the point.
Me: I’m gay.
My Sister: Wow.
Me: Yeah.
My Sister: I really have to shape up,...
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Coming out to my best friends
So i was hanging out with my two best friends after school one day and got the courage to come out.
(Friend 1= Girl )
(Friend 2= Boy)
Me: Omg i cant wait till the anime convention!! I finally get to go girl watching with all the other girls.
(My friends ignoring what i’m saying and talking)
Me: man….i’m kinda worried about how my family is going to react
(still oblivious)
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I was a little broke after helping my friend pay her a ‘procedure’ and consequently when I had asked my mom for money she couldn’t help but ask what happened to my paycheck in such a short notice. When I said I gave it as a loan to my friend she instantly knew what it was for.
Coming from a highly religious home that very evening we got home, she had a bible in hand and was...
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Between Me and God
I didn’t officially come out to my grandmother. I came out to my mom while my grandma was in the room, but was so busy being horrified by the ridiculous statements my mother was making (“Can’t you just marry a guy for a couple of years?”) that I didn’t actually take the time to see what her reaction was. After that I never mentioned it around her. She’s from...
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That Awkward Moment When You Come Out To Someone...
(On the phone, playing truth or dare with my best friend. We’re both girls, she thinks I’m straight.)
bff: Hmm. Oh, I have one! What’s one thing you never want to tell me?
me: …uh.
bff: Mwahaha.
me (after thinking for a moment): I…I used to think I was in love with you.
bff: …
me: Sorry if that makes things totally awkward now.
bff: No, it’s...
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My Somewhat Positive Coming Out Story.
So, I told my mom I was bisexual in the car. She wasn’t very totally accepting of it, at first, but she got around to it.
I was kind of wiggling around in happiness, because I had accepted the crush I had on one of my new friends.
Me: Hey, Mumsy…
My mom: Yeah?
Me: I have a crush on someone.
My mom (kind of surprised): Oh. Can you tell me who it is?
Me: … It’s Alyssa.
...
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Im not fully out of the closet yet, but a few of my good friends know that Im a lesbian. Today i was coming out to one of my good guy-friends. after i told him i was a lesbian he was really cool about it. later that day i got a text from him that said, “can you keep a secret. i really trust you with this” i told him “yes” he then replied that he is bi and that he feels much...
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Coming to to my BF over msn, and it went like:
Me:I’m not sure if I just like uhm just guys … .. hope you do not hate me now: C and hope this doesn’t ruin it for us .. .BF: so you’re bi? Me: im not sure :/ BF: baby, i could never hate you, if i could i would run to your house right now and give you a big hug. I will always love you….no matter what! Me: really? BF: of course you my gf and i would do anything for you. Me:...
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How to tell people you're not who they think you...
I’m a transgender guy and I tought I’d share my coming out experiences. One day I went to my dad and didn’t know how to bring the topic on.
Me : Well, dad, you know… I’ve got a boyfriend.
Dad : I’m proud of you ! Why do you seem so embarrassed, there’s nothing wrong with that.
Me : Er, it’s like… He’s gay. And me...
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Heartbroke coming out story
I want to share the story of how I came out as a bisexual to my mom. It happend last year in october and she had just picked me up at a friends house. I was really sad becuase my boyfriend had dumped me the day before.
Me: [joking] “I think I’ll just be a lesbian from now on.”
Mom: “Can you just.. change into liking girls from one day to another?”
Me: “Well.....
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I can’t remember the exact dialogue from when I came out to the kids at my table in my Tech Theatre class, but I remember it went pretty great. Basically, it started with me mentioning something about being into the ladies, and ended with us agreeing that in the future, I would marry Emma Watson while Rupert Grint carried our children. I don’t know how that happened, either. But I love...
How I told my 70 year old grandmother Im gay.
At dinner on Thanksgiving when everyone at the table was talking….
Gram:”So, you have a job yet?”
Me: ” No not yet, when i feel like it.” (laughs)
Gram: “With an attitude like that you need to marry a rich man!”
(My mom looks at me across the table with a smile on her face, and my father and sister were laughing)
Me: “Rich women, you mean a rich...
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Coming out to my friends
Me and my friends were in a hallway that was completely empty except for some random guy that I didn’t know when I decided to come out to them.
Me: Um… guys… I’m bi.
Friends: OMG, REALLY?!
Random Guy: - hears us and walks over- How can you be bi? Do you just flip a coin to decide whether you hook up with a guy or a girl?
Friend #1: But what happens if the coin lands on...
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Am I Out? Was I Ever In?
My coming out was an interesting experience. First, I need to give a little background. I’m 18 and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I’ve liked girls (I’m male) but have never had the courage to tell them. So anyway, I started questioning my sexuality 2 years ago, after my male friend and I engaged in some mild sexual activity (read: oral). At first nothing came of it, but then...
This is how it went.
Me: Can I sleep over Kate’s house with a couple other people?
Mother: ALSDKGH IM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THAT.
Me: …..why?
Mother: I know you like her!!
-SILENCE-
Mother: GOD DAMN IT SARA YOU’RE GONNA GET AIDS.
Me: Really mother? Really?
She has since calmed down. My dad guessed too, but we’ve never talked about it. Basically, nobody cared. Oh...
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Rainbow Cake!!!
Me and my aunt made a cake today, as we do quite regularly.
When the cake was in the oven and we were clearing up I stopped my aunt from putting the mixing bowl in the sink, so she pauses and lookes at me wiith a confused look on her face and says
“What, do you want to lick it out?”
When I replied with a “Hell yeah!” she suddenly realised what she said and muttered...